My husband is my #HeroOfOptimism for his unwavering support and calmness during the most tumultuous year of my life. Just over a year ago, as a 39 year old mother of two, I suffered a fourth stroke. I had suffered three strokes in my early twenties and underwent debilitating treatment. Fortunately, I had been living a somewhat normal life for fourteen years when my fourth stroke occurred.
After my last stroke, I was shocked to be diagnosed with a new rare brain disease, Moyamoya disease. There is no cure for Moyamoya but treatment is brain surgery I soon learned that I would need not just one but two brain surgeries. With the help of my husband, we made the courageous decision to travel across the country to a premier neurosurgeon for bilateral brain bypass surgeries.
With two children under ten, Brian was dedicated to maintaining a normal routine and life for them. Brian balanced his stressful career and being a full time caretaker to me while keeping life consistent and positive for our kids. On top of being his usual involved father, Brian seamlessly took on the role of husband, mom, employee, boss, public relations consultant, advocate, confidant, counselor and family CEO.
I was facing the battle of my life and had much anxiety and fear going into two brain surgeries. Brian remained calm and reassuring at all times- to me and the children. He selflessly devoted himself to my well-being, care and comfort before, during and after my 8 and 10 hour surgeries (one week apart.) He supported me when I had speech issues, making me signs to carry in case I needed to communicate. He held me when I needed assistance walking. He bathed me, managed my medications and pain and (literally and figuratively) did all the heavy lifting and caring for me and the children. Brian remained positive and confident in me and my course of treatment the entire time. He let me discuss my fears but always provided positive thoughts and optimism. He hugged me, held my hand and reminded me always that I would overcome these challenges. Brian, with the help of family and friends, created #teamlisa. Through my three weeks away, Brian religiously updated #teamlisa via social media. Not only was he my light of optimism and positivity, Brian provided that information and security to my family and friends around the country.
Brian wasn’t in my life during my early health challenges, but I’m so thankful he was here for me during this latest, scariest one. I was able to stay positive and overcame a stroke and two brain surgeries thanks to my husband, Brian. He is my #HeroOfOptimism.